Our community has about 1,200 active members and the request I keep hearing is direct messaging. Right now people trade emails in public threads to continue a conversation one-on-one, which is awkward and sometimes leaks contact details that shouldn't be public.
I want proper in-product DMs: inbox, unread counts, and ideally small group conversations for project teams inside the community. I would rather not bolt on a separate chat plugin with its own user table and its own notification system. Is there a WordPress forum plugin that has messaging built in natively?
